I Only wish I could get in Touch with this
wonderful woman who has been an indelible inspiration to me ever since 1984
when I first saw the movie about her accident (by the same title, "WHY
ME?").. and more importantly.. about her recovery. And now, 19 years later,
to finally have a copy of the book that fills in the gaps. How can I be so
lucky?
Leola Mae is a true Survivor, and through her experiences replayed on the
screen and on paper, I, too, have become a Survivor against so many odds
that people have shaken their heads in amazement when they see and hear me.
I could've given up, but Leola had already become such an inspiration to me,
it was no longer an option I'd even consider. Just 3 months ago, her
influence came into play again for me as I began the recovery process after
a 13-foot fall to a slate floor. Both arms broken, a head injury, bruises
and torn muscles.. and a boss who couldn't understand why I wouldn't be back
to work that week. It's a long process to go through, learning how to write
again, triumphs over lifting a wet washcloth, a can of tuna, a bowl of soup.
Even though I'm still not fully recovered, I already feel like the Velveteen
Rabbit! (read the book and you'll know what I mean)
This book is written in such a beautiful, personal way. I can picture the
intersection where the accident happened, I can see her try to lift her head
from the snow. I'm right there with her when she discovers everyday tasks
are too much to try so soon. What she describes is the way it really
happens, folks. I'm here to testify to that.
If only I'd known her accident had happened in Alaska, (I used to live in
Anchorage) I would have erected a sign in honor of her at that very spot
along Tudor Road that I, too, had traveled many times. I would have sought
permission to post a commemorative memo on the bulletin board at the
Elmendorf AFB Hospital where I spent so many hours, if only I had known I
was walking the very halls where she had worked.
Leola Mae, if you're out there, please know your story has influenced - and
saved - many lives out there. I am forever grateful to you for your courage.
Most Sincerely (and still in
recovery 10/2003),
Barbara L. Gilmore
2014
NOTE: I have been advised since this review was written that Leola Mae had
remarried and moved to Punta Gorda, Florida where she contracted an in
illness that took her precious life. My prayers continue to be with her
loved ones. She remains a positive influence on my
life and its challenges. Thank you, Leola.
